In this picture, the girl next to me is my cousin. We took this picture in the ending of one of my cousin’s wedding feast!
This year, actually the half a year, in my family, five members will face the most important choice of their life, wedding”s”. The bride and the bridegroom to be are of the same generation with me. Averagely, they are nine years old than I. Most of them are sons or daughters of my father’s sister. When I was a child, there are a lot of activities, such as my grand parents’ birthday and many festivals, in the clan just like now. Because I used to be shy at that time, so they were unfamiliar to me. Not until I became “less “shy to “strangers”, I gradually knew them in detail.
In fact, in my family, there is an unwritten custom that you can not make girlfriends or boyfriends during your study, so nearly all of my cousins make opposite friends late when they have a stable jobs. But the “rule” becomes challenged when there are “counterexamples”, like my older brother. Now the seniors are not that strictly limit “remaining us”. They have liberal views about the normal development of boys and girls.
In my opinion, I don’t know whether it is good or not to us. But, maybe it's the time that I have to change my mindset just like my parents and aunts!
This year, actually the half a year, in my family, five members will face the most important choice of their life, wedding”s”. The bride and the bridegroom to be are of the same generation with me. Averagely, they are nine years old than I. Most of them are sons or daughters of my father’s sister. When I was a child, there are a lot of activities, such as my grand parents’ birthday and many festivals, in the clan just like now. Because I used to be shy at that time, so they were unfamiliar to me. Not until I became “less “shy to “strangers”, I gradually knew them in detail.
In fact, in my family, there is an unwritten custom that you can not make girlfriends or boyfriends during your study, so nearly all of my cousins make opposite friends late when they have a stable jobs. But the “rule” becomes challenged when there are “counterexamples”, like my older brother. Now the seniors are not that strictly limit “remaining us”. They have liberal views about the normal development of boys and girls.
In my opinion, I don’t know whether it is good or not to us. But, maybe it's the time that I have to change my mindset just like my parents and aunts!
6 comments:
She is so beautiful with elegance:)
and looks like your girlfriens! Ha!Ha!!
Thanks for your praise, and I will tell her about this. you can say that again, she is beautiful with elegance. But...........it is a pity that she is not my girlfriend. ㄎㄎ....
科科，is there something unusual in your mind?
I like her, because we grew up together. I think you know I'm just kidding! ㄎㄎ
Wow, I envy you so much. I don't have such a beautiful girl grow up with my. But, I got two good brothers.
XD, I want to have a girl with horse tail hair leaning on me and take a picture with me.
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